Littleton Office Counselors
Steve Marks, MA, NCC
Licensed Professional Counselor
Areas of Focus
Couples: Marriage/Relationship Recovery from Infidelity/Sexual Addiction, Communication, Boundaries, Relationship Skills
Men: Sexual Addiction, Men’s Sex Addiction Group
I work with men that struggle with sexual addictive behaviors and use the Dr. Patrick Carnes’ 30-task model of treatment in my work.
I am passionate about helping couples work through the pain and wounds caused by sexual addiction and betrayal. I have received specialized training through Mark and Debra Laasar, which focuses on restoring and developing deep intimacy. My work with you will include grieving, processing and communicating the pain, hurt, and sadness. The level of trauma experienced by wives following their husband’s disclosure of sexual betrayal is often overlooked.
I also work with spouse’s/partner’s of those struggling with sex addiction and have experience PTSD/trauma from the disclosure. I work with the partner using the trauma model support and teach the importance of self care including building a healthy support system that includes family, friends, spiritual support, therapists and group support. In my work with partners, I find the same feelings associated with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). They often describe feeling numb as though in a daze, detachment from others, difficulty concentrating at work, outbursts of rage, easily startled and difficulty sleeping and eating. The wives also struggle with who to tell, how to tell and what to tell the people closest to them, including their adult children. I help the partner understand boundaries with the sex addict, self-care, tools for working through the trauma, and direct to outside supportive resources.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with a Master’s Degree from Denver Seminary and a Business Degree from the University of Denver.
Dave Maher, MA
Areas of Focus
Sexual Addiction, Anger Management, Other Addictions, Depression, Anxiety, Faith Issues, and Men’s Issues
My specialty is working with men who struggle with addictions and anger. Peripheral to these issues are usually experiences of shame, anxiety, and depression. My passion is to help men work through challenges by partnering with them to pursue their vision of a meaningful and good life. As a counselor, my strengths show up at the intersection of my own personal recovery journey, my education and learning, and deep empathy. All of this is aimed at providing you with the unconditional acceptance you will need in order to begin recognizing your full worth, changing problem behaviors, and living free.
In the area of Addiction – I work with you to find freedom. From secret porn use, to drug abuse, to alcoholism, to workaholism, I have found that it is the underlying woundedness of men that needs to be addressed. Once this true healing begins, the addiction loses its power because there is a decreased need to numb, medicate, and escape the pain. I know, I have been there, and I will work with you to find true healing and lasting restoration.
Anger can damage your relationships, your health, your work performance, and hurt those you care about the most. It can take your kids, wife, job, and years of quality life away from you if you don’t learn to healthy ways to manage it. For anger, I use two phases of treatment. First, in the management phase, I will help you learn the steps to defuse the problem emotions before they hurt the people around you. Second, in the equipping phase, I will teach you to identify and express your unmet needs, bringing relief to strained relationships through improved communication. I know, I have been there, and I will teach you steps on how to manage your anger and make radical changes to your life for the better.
Depression and Anxiety – I understand the debilitating effect that both depression and anxiety can have on your life. Most often, depression and anxiety have roots in complicated stories of trauma, loss, or hurt from your past. You do not have to face this alone. We can walk through your pain together. I will work hard to provide a safe and shame free environment where you can heal and be restored. I know, I have been there, and I can help you find the relief, freedom, and meaning you are desperately seeking.
We experience pain before we know what to do with it. The temporary coping skills that helped us deal with pain end up permanently running our lives. Yes, you will need to change. This change will need to be more than just behaviors, thoughts, or emotions. The core of healing is for a man to know in his bones, apart from achievement, money, relationships, moral measurements, or reputation, that he is good.
I know addiction, anger, depression, anxiety, and shame. In their shadow, I have lived the pain of broken relationships, failed expectations, low self-worth, and humbling work. Having lived through these pains, I have dedicated myself to discovering ways to help men who suffer without hope. I daily enjoy the simple freedom of relational restoration, true knowledge of self, delight in life, and growing intimacy with those I love. Because I have lived in both painful failure and simple freedom (often at the same time), I instinctively offer unconditional acceptance and tangible hope for men who are suffering, failing, and losing heart.
About me: I have a master’s degree from Denver Seminary in Christian Formation and Soul Care. I am also in the process of obtaining a second master’s degree in clinical counseling. I am uniquely equipped to offer Christian perspectives on healing and going deeper in your spiritual walk if desired. When I am not spending my time with my wife and son, or sitting around a fire pit with my closest friends, I can be found in the mountains. Trail running, mountain & road biking, snowboarding & snowshoeing, 14ers, camping, and fishing all feel like home to me. I also love to create through writing, painting, and cooking.
Cody Mitts, MA
Areas of Focus
Sexual Gender Identity, Anger Management, Adolescents, Faith Issues, Grief & Loss
I believe that counseling is most effective when a person has the freedom and safety to discover what is most authentic about themselves. I am passionate about helping people explore issues related to their identity and finding more fulfilling ways to experience life and relationships.
My desire to help people has grown out of my own personal experience of struggling with my identity and the freedom that I found by embracing my own authentic identity. I have a variety of life experiences from working with adolescents and young adults, to serving overseas in the U.S. Navy that has taught me to embrace the diversity of people that combines with my naturally compassionate and open style of counseling and shapes how I pursue helping people.
My areas of focus include:
- Sexual & Gender Identity
- Anger Management
- Faith Issues
- Grief & Loss
I received a master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Denver Seminary, I am a Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC) and I am a member of the American Counseling Association (ACA) and the Association for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Issues in Counseling (ALGBTIC).
I was born and raised in Colorado and love spending my time hiking the mountain trails with my dog Bandit, relaxing in a kayak, exploring the many coffee houses in Denver, and tending to my home garden.
Christine Denlinger, MA, NCC
Licensed Professional Counselor
Areas of Focus
Spouse of Sex Addict, Female Love & Sex Addiction, Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, and Bilingual Spanish-Speaking
I offer individual and group therapy for women and men traumatically impacted by their partners sexual addiction behaviors which includes years of lying, infidelity, pornography, and betrayal. I work from the trauma model for the partner that is in a relationship with a sex addict. Partners of sex addicts often feel the need to hide their partner’s secrets because she/he feels blamed for their partner’s behaviors or fears the negative consequences if he/she gets exposed.
I want you to know that your story and pain deserves to be told in a place of respect, care, and safety. I am here for you to share openly about how your partner’s betrayal has traumatized you and your family. You don’t have to walk your journey alone. I too have walked the path of being a survior of trauma and a diagnosis of PTSD. I fully understand the work of healing and I will strive to help you find the strength to complete your own journey of healing.
I am trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing) to work with trauma that comes from your betrayal and PTSD. I also use Cognitive Behavioral for the partners that are struggling with depression and anxiety. I have obtained advanced training with Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT) and EFT Couple’s Trauma Therapy. I also also Certified Addictions Counselor with over 3000 hours of training and supervision in the area of chemical abuse and dependence.
I am married with one daughter and three step-children.